The Journey to Become a Foster Parent

Lots of people out there possess the drive and motivation of becoming a foster parent – they naturally have a desire to nurture children, or they feel an identification with disadvantaged youngsters. However, just as many people don’t know the best way to go about it. The good news is that as soon as you get started in the process of fostering (which can seem initially daunting), life will get much easier very quickly as you go along. We will outline the necessary steps and the best way to begin your journey.

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The Journey to Become a Foster Parent

1. Getting started

Firstly, there are two directions that you can go down, with neither path being the wrong one to choose – it’s all down to whatever feels right for you in your circumstances. You can either foster through your local authority’s fostering team, or you can go independent and foster through a private fostering agency.

It’s all about that initial inquiry – when they get back in touch, each fostering group will quickly put your mind at ease and answer any burning questions that you may have, but it’s also important that they provide you with all the possible information that you need, to ensure that you fully comprehend what fostering a child will mean for you going forward over the next 4 to 6 months to be approved as a foster carer (so you’re in good hands, regardless of whether you ask questions or not!)

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2. Home Visit

So, this isn’t about your foster child coming to visit you (not yet!), but someone from the agency will usually arrange to come and visit you at your humble abode. The reason for the home visit is understandably to get a read on you in your home, but it’s generally their first chance to get as much information as they can on yourself and your current family, getting more elucidation on your life experiences and where you have taken up residence in the past.

3. Social Worker Assessment

The next step is when things start to get a little more serious, although at the same time you’ll take comfort that you’re definitely now fully immersed in the process. A social worker will get allocated to you, who will typically visit your home on average around 3 times a month over a 3-month period, to assess your compatibility to become a foster carer, displaying all their findings in a ‘Form F Report’. They will collate all kinds of references on you: general safety, police and medical, but they will also obviously have more time than the home visit to go deeper into your family history. You shouldn’t be anxious, many would-be-fosterers innately have the attributes needed to become perfect foster carers, chances are you’ll be part of this trend.

4. Foster School Week

To further develop your understanding, the next part of the journey is to essentially go to foster school and partake in a ‘skills to foster’ course. It’s only 3 and a half days, so you’ll be graduating in no time at all. If anything, it’s a great opportunity to encounter other upcoming fosterers who are in the same boat as you.

5. Panel Meeting… Approval!

At the panel meeting with your foster organization, your social worker’s Form F Report will be discussed in detail. Then a final decision will be reached on whether you’ll sail on to become a foster carer. Again, don’t worry! By this point, you definitely would have known if you were on the right track or not. The recommendation for your approval will be sent to the Agency Decision Maker, who will then finalize the approval!

Best of luck in your transitional journey to foster care.

Profile pic foster parentThis piece was written by Ryan Duffy. He is a freelance writer who is a recent university graduate in Media Studies. His passion for people and writing has encouraged him to pursue this career full-time. Writing on behalf of a fostering agency in Liverpool, he enjoys writing about lifestyle subjects and this is where most of his work has taken him. Connect with him on twitter @Ryan_Duff199.

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